Something was happening to me. They say that the best way to wake an adult up is to get them learning again. Boy was I learning! I had come alive. Answers to problems were miraculously popping into my head. Problem solving and deciphering the best solutions to the everyday dilemmas of life were becoming child’s play. I was even welcoming the challenges of my world. They had become a stimulus, a drug, or type of addiction. I had been reading so much that I could quote authors of books and I could recite messages delivered from the speakers of audios and podcasts that I had been listening to. They were giving me answers and helping me solve my own problems. They were creating a thinking machine. This is all coming from a man who had only read one book his entire life outside of a required text for school or work.

Prior to my Self-directed Shift, I didn’t really understand personal development and how important it is on one’s life. The cobwebs were being cleaned and cleared from this previously empty room I called a head. One day I was trying to explain something to a friend of mine and he said, “tell it to me like I’m a two year old”. He just wanted me to give him the information in a clear and simple way. The best way for me to do so and the best way for me to learn is visually, so I created the visual representation of what I have labeled “The Self-Directed Shift”. The theory itself is rather simple and doesn’t take a rocket scientist to understand. I will try to explain it to you like you’re a two year old. We are all born naked into this world. We know very little and we learn a lot over the course of our lives.

Some things are learned from our parents, from our friends, and from our environment. The knowledge we acquire from year to year produces the results that are in our life. Those results may be material possessions, friendships, money, careers and jobs, our faith, the type of marriage we are involved in, the type of parents we become, and our overall health and physical appearance to name a few. There is a natural progression that we all follow in life. We get better at life as time goes on. Some of it is just maturity. The natural path is paved with trial and error, bumping our head a time or two, and grabbing that hot pan on the stove. Once you’ve burned your hand pretty good, you become a little wiser and won’t do it again. That’s the way life works. Well…